Hoohak is nothing to be ashamed of. You are an adult. You are not breaking the law. Leave the shishia by the pipe when they come over. When they look at it, pick up the tobacco, open it & say something like "yea, and the tobacco mix is so full of fruit juice & molassas you have to keep it lit with charcole" I had no problems with my family. Most were US military and knew of them there. My other side is a bunch of Iranians . NOOOO problemo there.