Seanij Posted February 16, 2008 Share Posted February 16, 2008 So guys, i'm sure you've all been through this and as an adolescent I must ask the bigger peoples But like, i've been feeling insecure about my girlfriend even though there really is nothing to be insecure about!Is this normal?Will it go away with time? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Twang Posted February 16, 2008 Share Posted February 16, 2008 QUOTE (Seanij @ Feb 15 2008, 06:47 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>So guys, i'm sure you've all been through this and as an adolescent I must ask the bigger peoples But like, i've been feeling insecure about my girlfriend even though there really is nothing to be insecure about!Is this normal?Will it go away with time? Insecure in what way?That she is ugly/not the right one, or that she is up to something naughty? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seanij Posted February 16, 2008 Author Share Posted February 16, 2008 She's definetely not ugly/not the right one.But more I feel like Im gonna lose her Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeppyrkr Posted February 16, 2008 Share Posted February 16, 2008 at first its common but you'll both get to a point and it goes away or atleast it did for me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mdl Posted February 16, 2008 Share Posted February 16, 2008 What 'signs' are you getting that make you think you are going to lose her?She may be getting bored. How often do you do things together that don't include eating, watching movies, or just sitting around? It could be a possibility that you need to spice things up a little.How old are you and how many relationships have you been in? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thecoalition Posted February 16, 2008 Share Posted February 16, 2008 love is a roller coaster. youll go through periods like this and so will she. best thing is to talk it out. communication is the key to a relationship. even with some explosive fights (like last night for example) my girl and i have survived a few years now because we talk it out. . . or yell it out. either way we get our points across to one another. then the makeup sex is always the best.but i digress.talk to her im sure its all good. and if its not then she should be honest and let you know whats up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
r1v3th3ad Posted February 16, 2008 Share Posted February 16, 2008 QUOTE (thecoalition @ Feb 15 2008, 10:10 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>love is a roller coaster. youll go through periods like this and so will she. best thing is to talk it out. communication is the key to a relationship. even with some explosive fights (like last night for example) my girl and i have survived a few years now because we talk it out. . . or yell it out. either way we get our points across to one another. then the makeup sex is always the best.but i digress.talk to her im sure its all good. and if its not then she should be honest and let you know whats up.+1My fiance just broke up with me a month ago on my 21st bday...actually day after. We've had the ups and downs constantly, always worked things out. This time she ended it because of her health, not wantin to have to make me put up with it and take care of her etc(she has PCOS, Thyroid Disease, and on that day she found out she has some sort of blood disease)...anywho, she wants to get back together now, we are dating. I'm too hurt to go running back into things yet, I'm givin it time. If you know she loves you, you have nothing to worry about. I had a few people I know try to make moves, and still are, and they are constantly rejected. Its love and the ones who know love stay faithful. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rockchick04 Posted February 21, 2008 Share Posted February 21, 2008 QUOTE (thecoalition @ Feb 15 2008, 07:10 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>love is a roller coaster. youll go through periods like this and so will she. best thing is to talk it out. communication is the key to a relationship. even with some explosive fights (like last night for example) my girl and i have survived a few years now because we talk it out. . . or yell it out. either way we get our points across to one another. then the makeup sex is always the best.but i digress.talk to her im sure its all good. and if its not then she should be honest and let you know whats up.Definitely agree. You'll have bad days and good days and the key is definitely communication. Going on 2.5 years for my man and I and we've learned that communication works. I hope your feelings go away and that things are good with your girl! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
camelflage Posted February 21, 2008 Share Posted February 21, 2008 lose one get another, there's plenty out there... don't sweat it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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