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Alright, I need your guys' help on this one because I need help. Basically, I have lived my life being extremely flirtatious and touchy, while being very outgoing. I am the epitome of what feminists dislike as I fondle everything good looking in sight wether they are in a relationship or not.

Now my problem, recently, I decided to play tennis, and there's this really cute tennis girl who is EXTREMELY PRETTY, CUTE and INNOCENT. Now, I find myself attracted to her, and she has basically thrown herself at me, but every action I take makes me feel guilty.

I'm a very nice guy and I am very faithful, but everything I do makes me feel horrible. She has never done anything even remotely bad (skipped classes, skipped anything, she doesn't lie, doesn't swear ect...) and I have made her Smoke hookah, and everything listed above that she doesn't do, and I feel like absolute shit.

The problem is, I can't make a move because I feel too uncomfortable.

Does anyone know how to proceed with these "Innocent" girls? I have no experience in this field and it's driving me crazy!!!

Thanks guys.
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QUOTE (Yamin @ May 23 2008, 03:48 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Alright, I need your guys' help on this one because I need help. Basically, I have lived my life being extremely flirtatious and touchy, while being very outgoing. I am the epitome of what feminists dislike as I fondle everything good looking in sight wether they are in a relationship or not.

Now my problem, recently, I decided to play tennis, and there's this really cute tennis girl who is EXTREMELY PRETTY, CUTE and INNOCENT. Now, I find myself attracted to her, and she has basically thrown herself at me, but every action I take makes me feel guilty.

I'm a very nice guy and I am very faithful, but everything I do makes me feel horrible. She has never done anything even remotely bad (skipped classes, skipped anything, she doesn't lie, doesn't swear ect...) and I have made her Smoke hookah, and everything listed above that she doesn't do, and I feel like absolute shit.

The problem is, I can't make a move because I feel too uncomfortable.

Does anyone know how to proceed with these "Innocent" girls? I have no experience in this field and it's driving me crazy!!!

Thanks guys.




laugh.gif Good chance this "innocent girl" knows EXACTLY what she's doing. Why are you assuming that she doesn't? Do you think she can't decide for herself what she wants to do/not do? You MADE her smoke hookah? What is she, some kind of stepford wife? wallbash.gif Seriously, as long as you are not abusively forcing this girl to do things she doesn't want to, I don't see the problem.
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Dude- you already got her to smoke your hose, the battle is half over.
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Oh ya i have experience with the innocent girls. I have been with one for 4 years now. The thing to remember is they are people and they know what they want too. So...my advice is to let her know for certain that you have interest in her and that you dont want to do anything that she doesnt approve of. Now this is tricky. Heres why: if she goes for it and you start a relationship with her you have, very early on in the relationship, let her know that you have your thoughts and opinions too. If you do the first part but not the second part she will own you forever. Good luck, hope all goes well for the both of you and you know the forum rules, pics or it didnt happen.
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QUOTE (SimplexCoda @ May 23 2008, 04:23 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Oh ya i have experience with the innocent girls. I have been with one for 4 years now. The thing to remember is they are people and they know what they want too. So...my advice is to let her know for certain that you have interest in her and that you dont want to do anything that she doesnt approve of. Now this is tricky. Heres why: if she goes for it and you start a relationship with her you have, very early on in the relationship, let her know that you have your thoughts and opinions too. If you do the first part but not the second part she will own you forever. Good luck, hope all goes well for the both of you and you know the forum rules, pics or it didnt happen.


cool.gif Very wise advice.
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I agree with above peoples.


You didn't MAKE her do anything, she chose to do it, unless you duck taped the hose to her mouth and held her nose. Just because it's her "first time" doing things doesn't mean she doesn't want to. She probably enjoys the excitement and the newness of it all. Which in turn makes her associate all those good and fun feelings with who? YOU. That's right. You my man.

Because of that she'll be more willing to try new and exciting things because she trusts your judgment when it comes to things she hasn't done. Plus whenever she sees you, thinks about you, or mentions you, she gets "good feelings" because of everything that you stand for to her.


If you DON'T want a relationship: get away now, stay friends but establish it as only a friendship (normally innocent girls will latch onto someone faster)
But if you DO then you're fine, she wants one with you too as long as you stay exciting, unpredictable and fun to be around.


And as a last note in this crash course for "handling the innocent girl" be careful of clingyness. It doesn't always happen with someone who's innocent but it has a better chance to. So if you don't want that, make it clear and watch it, b/c the more you allow it the more she thinks you're ok with it.



I agree with SimplexCoda too. Let her know that you won't force her to do anything and you'll be like "ok" if she says no, but tell her you'll offer if you think it'll be fun. Builds the trust even more.


Also you've got her right now, you're the big man in her life. So if you get a relationship don't do like a lot of guys and become a wuss. What's going on right now works for you two, keep it up.
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I agree with liquid...innocent girls love the exciting..ness? of the guy does does things that are not typical. My girlfriend loves to go to parks after they are closed because she knows that cops will come by and kick us out. We dont do anything illegal, we are jsut there and the cop asks us to leave. Or at least that is what as happened in the past. Innocent girls want to push the lines of being good with out getting into any serious trouble.
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Girls are rarely innocent, unless shes very young.

And ditto all of the above, anything that she has done with you, is something that she wanted to do all along but was afraid to. You are giving her freedom. (Or something like that.)
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Good girls like to live precariously through their badass boyfriends.
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So i just was rereading what I have said so far and figured i should sum it up to prevent confusion and such. The innocent girls want a guy who wont MAKE them do anything, but it also willing to LET them to everything. So basically you have to be the perfect ballance of understanding and badassery.
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QUOTE (SimplexCoda @ May 23 2008, 05:52 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
So i just was rereading what I have said so far and figured i should sum it up to prevent confusion and such. The innocent girls want a guy who wont MAKE them do anything, but it also willing to LET them to everything. So basically you have to be the perfect ballance of understanding and badassery.


heh heh, so basically, she's only innocent because she hasn't had the opportunity to be bad yet. (Says the totally debauched and corrupted one, peering up from the gutter...) laugh.gif
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Well the Bubba aproach is easy Snoopy can tell you I have women.


here is the Bubba chart on how to treat women

Good girls = treat them like a ho and tell them what they want to hear

sluts and bad girls = tell them they are great and treat them like a queen.

This works everytime for me.

Later and good luck
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HAhahaahah

When I say I made her is that every thing she does is because she does it for me.

She has thrown herself at me already and told me that she wants me.... I just don't know if I can return it for I am uncomfortable around her.
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hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

allow me to repeat myself now...


hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

there, i think that pretty much covers this post

just shank 'er, mate pirate.png
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QUOTE (Bulldog_916 @ May 24 2008, 01:07 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
If she wants you, then you have no reason to be so coi. Go out on a few dates with her, but keep your distance a bit. Make her want you more. I bet you she is a wild child in the bedroom.



more than likely thats how most "innocent" girls are i have had a few that were actually too wild for my taste (after all im jewish lol)
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