Exano Posted November 3, 2008 Share Posted November 3, 2008 Breaking up sucks. Especially when its not anticpated. She told me her feelings for me have just faded..day before halloween. What gets me is we made plans (travel included) up for the next 5 months, and we were planning all this shit day before she broke up with me. Other thing that got me too is she didn't even talk to me about it, just thats it its over. Well I went over to her house, and I was talking to her for a good couple of hours about everything. I gave her the box she gave me our first week going out with all the little love letters and everything she had ever written me, and we basically talked about how this happend. Apparently she had gotten this vibe over the last month, and I was telling her I felt the same way we were growing very distant. But I was going through very very difficult financial times, school was rough on me, and our schedules really didnt match whatsoever. I ended up leaving by telling her "Look, we've been together 15 months, and three weeks you decided that because we had a rough time you don't love me anymore. If you had felt this way a little bit you needed to come talk to me, so go through the box, read the letters, read what you meant to me, and what I meant to you, and if you decide to try and fix it, i'll be here"So I left without much, and I feel downright ugh about everything. I dont think I am going to end up back with her, but there is a cute girl who gave me her number yesterday I think im going to ask out over to the good ol shisha bar. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kvtaco17 Posted November 3, 2008 Share Posted November 3, 2008 That sucks bro, it happens though for a reason... all I can say is just look forward, enjoy the moments you have and then move on, no sense living with what might have been.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mirus Posted November 3, 2008 Share Posted November 3, 2008 Go for the hookah date! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crashrebootrepeat Posted November 3, 2008 Share Posted November 3, 2008 QUOTE (Mirus @ Nov 2 2008, 08:14 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>Go for the hookah date!It sucks but I will say that am proud of the way you left things. I wish I could be cool about it when I get dumped by someone but I usually become an emotional wreck Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lysolz Posted November 3, 2008 Share Posted November 3, 2008 they're relentless. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Canon Posted November 3, 2008 Share Posted November 3, 2008 better now then get married to her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
modisess Posted November 3, 2008 Share Posted November 3, 2008 smoke up and suck it up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Exano Posted November 3, 2008 Author Share Posted November 3, 2008 Apparently she cheated on me the weekend before she left me. She felt a connection with the guy and said "It worked for us, im really sorry". I was flabbergasted, like seriously all our time vs. one hookup? I told her good luck, but you betrayed all of my love for you, my trust, you lied to me, you told me you were working late the day you hooked up with him, you betrayed me, you cheated on me, and i'll never be able to forgive or trust you again. So much for that one! Good riddance. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Arpomatic Posted November 3, 2008 Share Posted November 3, 2008 hookah is the way...always makes me feel better... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HookahCutie831 Posted November 3, 2008 Share Posted November 3, 2008 Breaking up is really hard. My Ex broke up with me almost a month ago and I'm just now starting to feel better. It was very unexpected and at first forced by his parents. Now his parents and I are talking more and getting along more than him and I, go figure right? It's to the point that he wants nothing to do with me, it hurts day in and day out but hey you really do move on eventually. Call the cutie who slipped you her #! Sorry, you gotta go through that. it does suck! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
oolatec Posted November 4, 2008 Share Posted November 4, 2008 Go out and get laid. Even if you have to pay for it. Seriously. You will forget ALL about her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sethram Posted November 4, 2008 Share Posted November 4, 2008 QUOTE (Exano @ Nov 3 2008, 02:07 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>Apparently she cheated on me the weekend before she left me. She felt a connection with the guy and said "It worked for us, im really sorry". I was flabbergasted, like seriously all our time vs. one hookup? I told her good luck, but you betrayed all of my love for you, my trust, you lied to me, you told me you were working late the day you hooked up with him, you betrayed me, you cheated on me, and i'll never be able to forgive or trust you again. So much for that one! Good riddance.See, this is just fucked up. I know that honesty is usually the best policy, but after the break up this isn't something you need to hear. After hearing this, screw her, you're better off now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
indian_villager Posted November 4, 2008 Share Posted November 4, 2008 (edited) That is tough buddy. I'm not going to tell you it's going to be easy. I'm not going to tell you to deal with it by distracting yourself (ex. hookah, hooker, one night stand as mentioned earlier). It is going to suck real bad for you. Just deal with it mentally. Stop feeling like crap. Get up and get out. Fact of the matter is you are still alive and things could definitely be worse, soon enough you will move on.EDIT: A condom filled with lotion tied to her door knob and a Flaming bag of Poo is always funny! Edited November 4, 2008 by indian_villager Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gaia.plateau Posted November 4, 2008 Share Posted November 4, 2008 QUOTE (indian_villager @ Nov 3 2008, 11:52 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>A condom filled with lotion tied to her door knobWell... if you're in a hurry... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hippo_Master Posted November 4, 2008 Share Posted November 4, 2008 QUOTE (gaia.plateau @ Nov 4 2008, 01:26 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>QUOTE (indian_villager @ Nov 3 2008, 11:52 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>A condom filled with lotion tied to her door knobWell... if you're in a hurry... Sometimes I just sit in threads and hope gaia will poke his head in. Honestly, I'd call her a slut, tell all her friends and your friends, and move on to the next one. Give her hell. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dylank0010 Posted November 7, 2008 Share Posted November 7, 2008 think of it this way, at least you didn't lose your retirement and everything you've worked for in life when the bottom fell out of the stock market like a good % of the country did. I think you just need to go somewhere with your friends and self medicate for a night. Drink some beer, smoke some of your favorite shisha, have some laughs with your crew, and you'll feel much better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
indian_villager Posted November 7, 2008 Share Posted November 7, 2008 QUOTE (gaia.plateau @ Nov 4 2008, 01:26 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>QUOTE (indian_villager @ Nov 3 2008, 11:52 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>A condom filled with lotion tied to her door knobWell... if you're in a hurry... Yea well this way if she is crazy she would take your manjuices you provided her with force a baby and then rape you for child support for the rest of your life! Unless you use the good ol spermicidal ones.! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joelhookah Posted November 8, 2008 Share Posted November 8, 2008 That is the absolute best thing that you could have happen to you. Glad you found out she was a cheater early. If you are getting numbers from cute chicks the day after, imagine all the shit you will get in a month. Welcome to the good life my friend! Date for a while, keep your options open and most of all enjoy life WITHOUT someone else. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
erufiku Posted November 8, 2008 Share Posted November 8, 2008 QUOTE (Hippo_Master @ Nov 4 2008, 02:34 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>QUOTE (gaia.plateau @ Nov 4 2008, 01:26 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>QUOTE (indian_villager @ Nov 3 2008, 11:52 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>A condom filled with lotion tied to her door knobWell... if you're in a hurry... Sometimes I just sit in threads and hope gaia will poke his head in. Honestly, I'd call her a slut, tell all her friends and your friends, and move on to the next one. Give her hell. Classy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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