shesha1 Posted March 11, 2009 Share Posted March 11, 2009 Lets say you have a girl, and shes amazing. But you have the chance to sleep with one of your ex's whos the best you have ever had in bed. If you could do it and get away with it would you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hobbs Posted March 11, 2009 Share Posted March 11, 2009 I did once, about 6 months ago... and my Ex still will not leave me alone. I would say no, don't do it or you'll end up like me with 200 text messages a day bugging the shit out of you. Not to mention you're already with a girl, that's not cool. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
r1v3th3ad Posted March 11, 2009 Share Posted March 11, 2009 it'll eat away at you if this girl turns out to be the one....I let a keeper go because it destroyed my conscience and I finally told her the truth(after she told me about similar things, I'm just the only one there who actually screwed someone else, long fucked up story[she started it ]) and now we are just aquantances, three and a half years down the toilet. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
newjacksm Posted March 11, 2009 Share Posted March 11, 2009 (edited) My Ex was nothing special she was horrible with everything from the smell of her breath to the smell of her.. Ill use your imagination.. Not only was there a hygiene problem but she made me miserable. I am with a girl now that I love we get into ridiculous (dumb) fights because she's stubborn but yeah to answer your question no I would never ever have a one night stand with my EX. Edited March 11, 2009 by newjacksm Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SilentBob Posted March 11, 2009 Share Posted March 11, 2009 No. Cheaters in my opinion are disgusting. You shouldn't be thinking about getting away with it, you should be thinking how wrong it is. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
K1024 Posted March 11, 2009 Share Posted March 11, 2009 ignoring the cheating aspect, sleeping with an ex is a road you do not want to go down...trust me. the will not stop trying to contact you afterwards, and it will get very very annoying.now if you plan on cheating...well thats just wrong..and maybe you should reconsider the relationship your in right now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shesha1 Posted March 11, 2009 Author Share Posted March 11, 2009 Ok. I couldn't do it anyways. I wouldn't throw away what I have. Damn its nice to see the world still has some good moral based people. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
newjacksm Posted March 11, 2009 Share Posted March 11, 2009 I didnt read the full thing of your post I thought you jut meant a one night stand with your ex w/ out a girlfriend. if you have a girlfriend do the right thing and dont cheat. If you really need to cheat on your girlfriend then you shouldn't be in a relationship with that person in the first place. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boricua Posted March 11, 2009 Share Posted March 11, 2009 Well I don't usually approve of cheating but I had a similar situation once. Not that she was amazing in bed but I thought I still had feeling for her. Sleeping with my Ex and realizing how shallow and meaningless the sex felt helped me realize I had no feeling for her and also that I loved the girl I was seeing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
freezerburn456 Posted March 12, 2009 Share Posted March 12, 2009 Don't do it. I made that mistake about 6 months ago. The crazy bitch will not leave me alone now! She even tried to transfer colleges to get closer to me. If you have something special, dont do anything to mess it up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Will_Evo Posted March 12, 2009 Share Posted March 12, 2009 Yea, sounds like a recipe for disaster...and at that...I'd probably do it lol. Of Course I am at no stage in my life that I want to settle down either, so the other relationship wouldn't be that serious haha.-Evo© Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mitchard Posted March 12, 2009 Share Posted March 12, 2009 QUOTE (SilentBob @ Mar 11 2009, 03:24 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>No. Cheaters in my opinion are disgusting. You shouldn't be thinking about getting away with it, you should be thinking how wrong it is.QFT Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SuburbanSmoker Posted March 12, 2009 Share Posted March 12, 2009 Dude one night with her is a year your committed to her in her mind. dont do it unless your gonna move. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hojo Posted March 12, 2009 Share Posted March 12, 2009 QUOTE (mitchard @ Mar 12 2009, 03:00 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>QUOTE (SilentBob @ Mar 11 2009, 03:24 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>No. Cheaters in my opinion are disgusting. You shouldn't be thinking about getting away with it, you should be thinking how wrong it is.QFTI'm siding with these two. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shesha1 Posted March 12, 2009 Author Share Posted March 12, 2009 You guys are funny man. I can't bring myself to do it. Its not worth it. 8 years ago I would have with out thinking twice. I just can't do that stuff anymore. I also believe in Karma. Cuz i have had it done to me too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jdehart Posted March 12, 2009 Share Posted March 12, 2009 Hitting the ex is good stuff... there are no strings and a lot of weird emotions that keep it interesting... like it could be some vengeful stuff mixed in with remembering the good times, whatever... do what what you like, it's your call and you only live once.But you got a new girl now... you just have to ask yourself how important your relationship is with her... might be worth it, or it may not be... your call. What I do know is that if you have high hopes for your current girl and your hiding stuff that you know will hurt her, then your just poisoning your relationship and it won't be worth as much, even if she never finds out... it will always be there. Your relationship still may be good, just not as good as it could have been.John Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shesha1 Posted March 12, 2009 Author Share Posted March 12, 2009 QUOTE (jdehart @ Mar 12 2009, 02:12 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>Hitting the ex is good stuff... there are no strings and a lot of weird emotions that keep it interesting... like it could be some vengeful stuff mixed in with remembering the good times, whatever... do what what you like, it's your call and you only live once.But you got a new girl now... you just have to ask yourself how important your relationship is with her... might be worth it, or it may not be... your call. What I do know is that if you have high hopes for your current girl and your hiding stuff that you know will hurt her, then your just poisoning your relationship and it won't be worth as much, even if she never finds out... it will always be there. Your relationship still may be good, just not as good as it could have been.JohnYeah i have been with current girl for year and a half. I just can't do it. But I would be lying to myself If I said I wouldnt do it if there was a 100% chance it wouldnt come back on me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ElijahSing Posted March 12, 2009 Share Posted March 12, 2009 QUOTE (shesha1 @ Mar 12 2009, 03:14 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>QUOTE (jdehart @ Mar 12 2009, 02:12 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>Hitting the ex is good stuff... there are no strings and a lot of weird emotions that keep it interesting... like it could be some vengeful stuff mixed in with remembering the good times, whatever... do what what you like, it's your call and you only live once.But you got a new girl now... you just have to ask yourself how important your relationship is with her... might be worth it, or it may not be... your call. What I do know is that if you have high hopes for your current girl and your hiding stuff that you know will hurt her, then your just poisoning your relationship and it won't be worth as much, even if she never finds out... it will always be there. Your relationship still may be good, just not as good as it could have been.JohnYeah i have been with current girl for year and a half. I just can't do it. But I would be lying to myself If I said I wouldnt do it if there was a 100% chance it wouldnt come back on me.hmm... well, i personally believe that if you think you could get away with it and you would do it, you don't need to be dating this other girl, that only means you would consider cheating on her, if you honestly loved somebody that wouldn't even be an option.. I have been with my girlfriend for almost 9 months.. I have had several opportunities to cheat on her with girls who are just absolutely gorgeous.. but I didn't do it. It wasn't an option for me, because I Love her, and also..how could you live with yourself if you did get away with it, I wouldn't be able to handle that mentally, I have no lies or secrets with my woman, we tell each other 100% of everything. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
clumsygrace Posted March 13, 2009 Share Posted March 13, 2009 If you have an amazing girl already, why would you even consider hooking up with your ex? This is why girls have a hard time trusting guys. Which, in turn, makes things a whole lot more complicated. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joytron Posted March 13, 2009 Share Posted March 13, 2009 QUOTE (clumsygrace @ Mar 12 2009, 08:46 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>If you have an amazing girl already, why would you even consider hooking up with your ex? This is why girls have a hard time trusting guys. Which, in turn, makes things a whole lot more complicated.wow thanks for lumping all of is in with that guy.but all joking aside dude either break up with your gf or decide that cheating on her even if you couldnt get caught isnt worth it. There is no middle ground, for me even if an oppurtunity came up that would be impossible to trace back to me i still coudnt do it. if you marry this girl you will live with that fact until the day you die. I enjoy good sex as much as the next guy, but it could be never be good enough to cheat on my lady Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mitchard Posted March 13, 2009 Share Posted March 13, 2009 QUOTE (clumsygrace @ Mar 12 2009, 08:46 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>If you have an amazing girl already, why would you even consider hooking up with your ex? This is why girls have a hard time trusting guys. Which, in turn, makes things a whole lot more complicated.Hey hey hey. This is why I don't trust women. It does go both ways. Hah. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SilentBob Posted March 13, 2009 Share Posted March 13, 2009 QUOTE (mitchard @ Mar 13 2009, 04:37 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>QUOTE (clumsygrace @ Mar 12 2009, 08:46 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>If you have an amazing girl already, why would you even consider hooking up with your ex? This is why girls have a hard time trusting guys. Which, in turn, makes things a whole lot more complicated.Hey hey hey. This is why I don't trust women. It does go both ways. Hah.QFT back Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Capt. Morgan Posted March 13, 2009 Share Posted March 13, 2009 QUOTE (mitchard @ Mar 13 2009, 06:37 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>QUOTE (clumsygrace @ Mar 12 2009, 08:46 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>If you have an amazing girl already, why would you even consider hooking up with your ex? This is why girls have a hard time trusting guys. Which, in turn, makes things a whole lot more complicated.Hey hey hey. This is why I don't trust women. It does go both ways. Hah.Indeed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fineout Posted March 14, 2009 Share Posted March 14, 2009 My girlfriend is in Italy for the semester, and i've had chances to do exactly what you're thinking about doing. My ex who is very good looking and a real cool girl texted me one night after i had went bowling with her and some mutual friends from work and said "hey noones over you should come by"I didn't even think about it and said no right away because i love my girl and know it would break her heart. Also I would be furious if she was out hooking up with dudes in Italy, we respect and trust each other a lot and you obviously should probably think if you and your girl do or don't. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
clumsygrace Posted March 14, 2009 Share Posted March 14, 2009 QUOTE (joytron @ Mar 13 2009, 12:58 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>QUOTE (clumsygrace @ Mar 12 2009, 08:46 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>If you have an amazing girl already, why would you even consider hooking up with your ex? This is why girls have a hard time trusting guys. Which, in turn, makes things a whole lot more complicated.wow thanks for lumping all of is in with that guy.It's happened to me before. Multiple times. I'm just saying from my experiences, I've had a hard time being able to trust guys. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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