Boricua Posted March 14, 2009 Share Posted March 14, 2009 QUOTE (fineout @ Mar 13 2009, 07:40 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>My girlfriend is in Italy for the semester, and i've had chances to do exactly what you're thinking about doing. My ex who is very good looking and a real cool girl texted me one night after i had went bowling with her and some mutual friends from work and said "hey noones over you should come by"I didn't even think about it and said no right away because i love my girl and know it would break her heart. Also I would be furious if she was out hooking up with dudes in Italy, we respect and trust each other a lot and you obviously should probably think if you and your girl do or don't.Not to rain on your parade but 95% of study-abroads hook up while abroad even when in relationships.This coming from someone who has studied abroad, many friends studying abroad, and worked for and with study abroad programs and students.Many people see it as part of the cultural experience. I remember when I studied abroad most people who were hooking up had a bf/gf back home. The funniest thing was when those bf/gf came to visit. The students would stop seeing their study abroad 'hook up' for that week or whatever and then get back to it after they left.Again, not everyone does it but the great majority of people. What I tell everyone: be very clear with your bf/gf before you go, during your stay, and after. Regardless, most of these relationships are not serious and will not last.There are some exceptions though, I went and had a gf I met at study abroad for about 2 years after that Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SilentBob Posted March 14, 2009 Share Posted March 14, 2009 QUOTE (Boricua @ Mar 13 2009, 10:45 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>QUOTE (fineout @ Mar 13 2009, 07:40 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>My girlfriend is in Italy for the semester, and i've had chances to do exactly what you're thinking about doing. My ex who is very good looking and a real cool girl texted me one night after i had went bowling with her and some mutual friends from work and said "hey noones over you should come by"I didn't even think about it and said no right away because i love my girl and know it would break her heart. Also I would be furious if she was out hooking up with dudes in Italy, we respect and trust each other a lot and you obviously should probably think if you and your girl do or don't.Not to rain on your parade but 95% of study-abroads hook up while abroad even when in relationships.This coming from someone who has studied abroad, many friends studying abroad, and worked for and with study abroad programs and students.Many people see it as part of the cultural experience. I remember when I studied abroad most people who were hooking up had a bf/gf back home. The funniest thing was when those bf/gf came to visit. The students would stop seeing their study abroad 'hook up' for that week or whatever and then get back to it after they left.Again, not everyone does it but the great majority of people. What I tell everyone: be very clear with your bf/gf before you go, during your stay, and after. Regardless, most of these relationships are not serious and will not last.There are some exceptions though, I went and had a gf I met at study abroad for about 2 years after that I don't get why you'd put this in his head? Basically calling his gf a cheater too. Not cool. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SilkkNLPc Posted March 14, 2009 Share Posted March 14, 2009 bad idea, dont do it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fineout Posted March 14, 2009 Share Posted March 14, 2009 wow thanks dude, actually i guarantee that she wont, shes with her friends and one of her best friends boyfriend is a good friend of mine so it would be pretty damn hard for that to happen, but thanks for the confidence. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Get Crunk! Posted March 15, 2009 Share Posted March 15, 2009 cheatings just bad business all around and exs are bad business too, theres gotta be a reason there an ex yah know...weather it was on your part or theres...still a reason Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hippo_Master Posted March 15, 2009 Share Posted March 15, 2009 If you do, your current girl deserves to castrate you. (byebe manhood). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ilikemyusername Posted March 16, 2009 Share Posted March 16, 2009 yeah, if you werent with someone now, i'd say go for it! and slip it from the pink into the stink! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shesha1 Posted March 17, 2009 Author Share Posted March 17, 2009 update!!Couldn't do it. Never responded. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scoop Posted March 18, 2009 Share Posted March 18, 2009 DONT DO IT!!!!!!!!! NOOOOOOOOOOOlol@ you saying you didn't do it like 6 times and people not reading it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Click Posted March 18, 2009 Share Posted March 18, 2009 Yea seriously don't do it. It will only lead to shit afterwards and make you feel like crap.She is an ex for a reason. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
camelflage Posted March 19, 2009 Share Posted March 19, 2009 QUOTE (Boricua @ Mar 14 2009, 01:45 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>QUOTE (fineout @ Mar 13 2009, 07:40 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>My girlfriend is in Italy for the semester, and i've had chances to do exactly what you're thinking about doing. My ex who is very good looking and a real cool girl texted me one night after i had went bowling with her and some mutual friends from work and said "hey noones over you should come by"I didn't even think about it and said no right away because i love my girl and know it would break her heart. Also I would be furious if she was out hooking up with dudes in Italy, we respect and trust each other a lot and you obviously should probably think if you and your girl do or don't.Not to rain on your parade but 95% of study-abroads hook up while abroad even when in relationships.This coming from someone who has studied abroad, many friends studying abroad, and worked for and with study abroad programs and students.Many people see it as part of the cultural experience. I remember when I studied abroad most people who were hooking up had a bf/gf back home. The funniest thing was when those bf/gf came to visit. The students would stop seeing their study abroad 'hook up' for that week or whatever and then get back to it after they left.oh and good job not sleeping with your ex. only causes drama.Again, not everyone does it but the great majority of people. What I tell everyone: be very clear with your bf/gf before you go, during your stay, and after. Regardless, most of these relationships are not serious and will not last.There are some exceptions though, I went and had a gf I met at study abroad for about 2 years after that so true. why i dont trust anyone in general and refuse to date. girls are sluts. theyll drop their panties eventually if the dude is hot/rich/persuasive enough. i keep all my girls as fuck-buddies only, that way noone can cheat since nothing is monogomous to start with. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HellCat Posted March 20, 2009 Share Posted March 20, 2009 Right on! Fuck buddies ftwEven better: two of them at the same time Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Arcane Posted March 20, 2009 Share Posted March 20, 2009 my fiancee is amazing. no way i'd ever even thing about trying to mess this up! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Messiah Posted March 22, 2009 Share Posted March 22, 2009 I would have said hell no years ago. After bad experiences I now say do it. Especially if your current girl isn't putting out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cotsi95 Posted March 22, 2009 Share Posted March 22, 2009 QUOTE (mitchard @ Mar 13 2009, 05:37 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>QUOTE (clumsygrace @ Mar 12 2009, 08:46 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>If you have an amazing girl already, why would you even consider hooking up with your ex? This is why girls have a hard time trusting guys. Which, in turn, makes things a whole lot more complicated.Hey hey hey. This is why I don't trust women. It does go both ways. Hah.I have a harder time trusting women no more then ever because of my ex. Its hard epically when you still care about them but like crunk said just remind your self THEY ARE YOUR EX FOR A REASON! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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