Arcane Posted September 20, 2009 Share Posted September 20, 2009 I'm sorry guys....I didn't mean to freak you out or get you concerned. I'm still here...I'm still around, but honestly my world is crashing down on me. If I don't get myself back together, then what good am I?I just need time alone...You guys have been my support through my most hardest times....Mark, Gus, Joe, John, Richard and everyone else that took tiime to listen to all my bullshit...I love you guys.I really hope one day that I'll be back...but, I really can't promise anything.To the HF community, you guys rock. This is a great place to discuss your hobby or passion....but, to me...its so much more. Its a place to get away from all the trials and tribulations that real life puts in front of you.You guys take care of yourselves....and keep smoking.-Jay Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
twoapplesplease Posted September 20, 2009 Share Posted September 20, 2009 Well good luck to you and hopefully we will here from you agin sometime.I too am about to crash the world so I may dissapear for awhile but I'll be back soon.Me and some freinds have discussed how life happens every ten years.It seems like every thing just hits the fan every ten years for about a year or two and settless down for eight year or so.Hey man take care of bussiness and always look on the brite side. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Majid Posted September 20, 2009 Share Posted September 20, 2009 Don't know what's going on but i hope you feel better. God bless you friend, remember, one day at a time. Every day can be better than the last and before you know it you'll be in good waters again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StreetBob Posted September 20, 2009 Share Posted September 20, 2009 (edited) Jay,If you ever need someone to vent to and smoke with, you know where to find me. Best of luck getting things figured out. Edited September 20, 2009 by StreetBob Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyler Posted September 20, 2009 Share Posted September 20, 2009 Jaaaay noooo Feel better bro, if you need anything, you know where to find us Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
newjacksm Posted September 20, 2009 Share Posted September 20, 2009 feel better it seems as if when i turned 21 and when the summer hit. my life is crashing too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mushrat Posted September 20, 2009 Share Posted September 20, 2009 Well, I understand. remember you always have friends here. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scratchy Posted September 20, 2009 Share Posted September 20, 2009 Jay, honestly, I'm just happy you're okay.When you didn't respond to the AIM that night, we were REAL worried.Good luck in the adventure we call life and hope to see you around soon Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JOE Posted September 20, 2009 Share Posted September 20, 2009 good luck broham keep your chin up Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Giant Ninja Robot Posted September 20, 2009 Share Posted September 20, 2009 Well Jay, you need to take care of yourself, so I think some time to simplify and face what is stressing you is good. I hate to hear that you're leaving us for a bit but your well being in reality trumps my desire to keep you here. I hope everything turns out well and my thoughts are with you, there'll be an Arcane shaped hole here man.(at least you have a SHITTON of Tangiers and Nakhla to smoke while you figure and sort )You know I'm here to listen if you need a random ear. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joytron Posted September 20, 2009 Share Posted September 20, 2009 QUOTE (giant ninja robot @ Sep 20 2009, 02:27 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>Well Jay, you need to take care of yourself, so I think some time to simplify and face what is stressing you is good. I hate to hear that you're leaving us for a bit but your well being in reality trumps my desire to keep you here. I hope everything turns out well and my thoughts are with you, there'll be an Arcane shaped hole here man.(at least you have a SHITTON of Tangiers and Nakhla to smoke while you figure and sort )You know I'm here to listen if you need a random ear.+1 We love you man! when things get back into shape we are going to SD! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
delSol_si Posted September 21, 2009 Share Posted September 21, 2009 QUOTE (Arcane @ Sep 20 2009, 06:48 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>To the HF community, you guys rock. This is a great place to discuss your hobby or passion....but, to me...its so much more. Its a place to get away from all the trials and tribulations that real life puts in front of you.+1Sorry to hear your frustrations jay...sorry I haven't been on a lot lately to help you either, school is kicking my ass right now.I hate to see a woman tearing you apart like this. I understand that you had been together for a really long time and so forth (I don't want to go into details, not sure you want the whole world knowing everything), but seriously man, there are plenty more women out there. I used to get hung up on one girl and get soo depressed that I couldn't have her, but then just in this last year, I realized that there are ≈7 billion people in this world, ≈3 million which are in the US. Of that, ≈3.2 billion are females and 1.5 million are females, respectively. Thats a lot of women. Life is too short to get stuck on one woman. I don't know if you are religious or not, but I firmly believe that if it doesn't work out, its not meant to be. God has an ultimate plan for us and we need to go along with and be respectful of that plan. If you and Rin are supposed to be together, it will work, if not, you need to accept that and move on. God has better plans in mind for you. All those hurting moments in life are put there to make the good moments that much better. God's chastening towards us is only meant for our good.One night I was talking to my sister because I was in a situation where I really wanted this ONE girl but I couldn't seem to get her to like me back. I told my sister I was praying about it, but then she told me something very amazing that changed my life, here is our convo (paraphrased, of course, as I can't remember it verbatim) :Me: ya, I keep praying that God will help me get a girlfriend, hopefully "(insert name here)."her: you are praying all wrong, thats not the proper way to go about doing thatme: what do you mean? I don't understandher: When you pray to God, you have to give him everything, not just part, the whole thing. God doesn't do "options"me: I see, can you explain a little further?her: sure, take your example, you are praying "God, I really want a girlfriend, please help me get one. I really like (insert name), I would really like to get with her." You SHOULD be praying "God, I really want a girlfriend, but understand your will is more important than what I want. If I am supposed to get one, please give me a sign and help me along that path of finding the right girl. If not, please give me a sign so I can be at peace with it. Thank you"Again, its not word for word, but its the basic idea. If you aren't religious, this really won't help you out (though I hope it may persuade you?) but it really helped me out so I thought I would pass it along. I have been single for going on 6 year now, never have had any type of sex, not even oral, nothing, and I am at peace with it. I know this wasn't meant to be a "religious" topic thread, but I don't really care, I really think you will feel a lot better if you give everything to God and let him take care of you and the situation. He wants what it best for you even if you don't.Just think about it. I know you don't want to listen to this and don't believe it at all, but just think about it. Lets say there is someone else out there that would be better for you, better than Rin. If Rin and yourself were still together, there would be no possibility of you meeting this new certain someone. Plus, you and Rin might get back together, only God knows. If God wants you to take a break from each other, He obviously has his reasons. God lets hurtful things happen to us to let the good times roll even stronger. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
delSol_si Posted September 21, 2009 Share Posted September 21, 2009 I miss you in chat jay! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Click Posted September 21, 2009 Share Posted September 21, 2009 Jay Jay! You'll be missed until your return. I hope you work everything out and gets back on track. Good luck! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Capt. Morgan Posted September 21, 2009 Share Posted September 21, 2009 Take care of yourself and hope to see ya back here. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
indian_villager Posted September 21, 2009 Share Posted September 21, 2009 Take it easy and regroup man. It is easy for the world to overwhelm a person. You know where to find us! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stuie Posted September 21, 2009 Share Posted September 21, 2009 Jay, you will be missed. Hope you get it all straightened out and we await your triumphant return! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tom1 Posted September 21, 2009 Share Posted September 21, 2009 Good luck Jay. Try not to stress yourself out too much, Things usually seem worse than they are. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
srawas89 Posted September 22, 2009 Share Posted September 22, 2009 I hope everything works out for you. Things will get better you just got to keep your head up even when it seems impossible. I know we have not really talked before but if you ever need anything pm me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NIGHTS OF BAGHDAD Posted September 22, 2009 Share Posted September 22, 2009 take care of yourself man..just dont forget that you cant make everyone happy and sometimes you gotta say phuck it its time to take care of myself and put myself first..hope to see you back man..peace Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Arcane Posted September 22, 2009 Author Share Posted September 22, 2009 (edited) sooooo...i'm back. hope i wasn't gone too long.its been a rough and rocky ride for me, but its true what they say....it all works out in the end. i may not be as active on the forums or on chat for a while, but i'll always be around. i got some really good friends here...guess i still need time to get over everything....and i know it'll come around.on that note, i know some of you were aware of a "jay and rin"...but, that's no longer the case anymore. so, i do ask you guys not to bring her up in chat. it was good times and those memories alone will suffice.sooooooooo....whatcha smokin'? haha. Edited September 22, 2009 by Arcane Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ryno Posted September 22, 2009 Share Posted September 22, 2009 Hope things get better for ya Jay, you're great guy and its fun to talk to you in chat. I think I'm gonna fire up some Apple Orgy for ya and watch this documentary on Hunter S. Thompson. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
r1v3th3ad Posted September 22, 2009 Share Posted September 22, 2009 glad to see ya back Jay, I hope things are going better for ya.if you ever need someone to talk to, I'm here for ya, just drop me a pm...I know what that boat is like, I went through something similar back in Febuary...there is a dawn through darkness Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sapphire Posted September 23, 2009 Share Posted September 23, 2009 Sniff...... wubs. Glad you are back. Life sucks sometimes for sure ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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