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[quote name='demonix' date='11 December 2009 - 06:43 PM' timestamp='1260575008' post='438159']
someone care to fill me in?
I've been absent
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mods got sick of him insulting other members he got banned for 3 days, after the ban he came back filled with piss and vinegar and that didnt help him..so he go bye bye
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Some people probably at first thought I was disagreeing with the original ban. He's in a very angry place and I feel for him. I think many people here would have been willing to help him when he came back had he given us the chance. But you can't help someone who can't see beyond their own justification. Especially if they're trying to get around the rules just because they think everyone else is wrong.

I hope someday he gets over it and gets into a healtheir more peaceful frame of mind. (One of those goodbye and hope you find your way kind of wishes.)

'Rani

(Still hearing Queen in the background.......)
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but wasn't this his last day any way... I mean it was a short ban...why would you need to create another account for the use of a few days... ???

Well I'm not going to question any further... I've had a few good conversations with him... but if you break the rules then believe your above them when your not...I see no reason not to do a perma...oh well :facepalm:
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ok, everyone....to clarify, he served his time...and came back and posted his retort which, imo, was out of line.

i banned him AGAIN...then he proceeded to create another account to circumvent the account ban, which is why he got ip banned.
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[quote name='spectrum055' date='11 December 2009 - 06:58 PM' timestamp='1260579532' post='438180']
.why would you need to create another account for the use of a few days... ???
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because you don't like the rules and think they shouldn't apply. He couldn't deal
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[quote name='Arcane' date='12 December 2009 - 04:26 AM' timestamp='1260581164' post='438192']
ok, everyone....to clarify, he served his time...and came back and posted his retort which, imo, was out of line.

i banned him AGAIN...then he proceeded to create another account to circumvent the account ban, which is why he got ip banned.
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[font="Georgia"][size="3"][color="#4b0082"]GOOD WORK JAY! Keeping this place peaceful and fun is paramount! (take your anger to counseling, don't rain on other people while they are trying to enjoy their fresh fruity goodness!)[/color][/size][/font]
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[quote name='NIGHTS OF BAGHDAD' date='11 December 2009 - 11:42 PM' timestamp='1260592921' post='438223']
hey do you realize destructo is the very first member to get suspended and banned on the new version of the forum..lol we've had our first disgruntled member..lol
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Oh joy...another first. :wallbash:
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This isn't meant directly towards Destructo, I just wanted to point out some things from living parts of my life in a very hard world, some of it when I was a bouncer in some of the toughest places in San Diego (Which might not be that tough when push comes to shove, really). There are people that go through periods where they are in a bad place, they are angry, they are frustrated, but this is rarely a one-time occurrence. It will be something else next week. They will be a problem sporadically for a long time to come, as long as you tolerate them. Additionally, there are people that are always at the bottom of a pile in a fight. It wasn't their fault, the other guy came after them, but in real terms, if you want to eliminate problems and fights, those guys need to go equally with the guys throwing punches first. Thats why bouncers don't care who swung first. Both guys are a problem. One guy because he doesn't know when to control himself (Usually his mouth, but maybe touching a girl who told him to buzz off), the other guy because he doesn't know how to not throw a punch. In this politically correct world, we like to fault the guys throwing the punch. When you focus on them you have more and more fights and kick out more and more people, both sides of the equation are important to controlling violence and problems. The guys being royal assholes to the guys who get upset are important too.

Destructo, if you are still reading this, go easy man. It ain't worth getting upset for. There's all kinds of assholes in this world that see a guy getting upset and they have to come in and try to make you even more upset, butting their nose in your business. I say, forget about it. Ignore them. It ain't worth getting upset about. Throw punches when you are in the right and there is no other alternative. I used to be an angry guy, too. I know, man. I totally understand. That being said, you gots to go with the guys who see you upset and try to make your more upset. I can't count how many guys I flattened out for one reason or another. I've only been kicked out of a few bars and whatnot though. Its amazing to watch this shit go down and then when the bouncers begin swarming, the bitch trying to get you upset just kinda pretends he isn't doing a thing. All of sudden, We're the ones with a problem, we're the angry ones. We're the ones who are at fault. The guys who like to pour gasoline on fires to watch the flames aren't at fault, if you ask them.

The bouncers of the world understand best. Your anger is pure and honest, they're just cowards, crying for a bouncer to come and get them out of the mess they helped make. Me, Mushy, Jay, etc. We're just the guys who have to keep the fights down to a minimum. Try to understand our side, too. You can't walk in upset and let other guys get to you. You have to chill. Hope this helps on your journey, my man.
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