So How Was Your First Time?

[ryno]

Talking in chat about the first time got me to thinking, how was your guys/girls' first time? I know mine was horrible, awkward, and short. And I somehow had the nerve to ask how it was... she said good while it lasted lol. I was 17 when it happened, she was 16. So guys, how did yours go?

[PSU Smoker]

hahaha im so glad you made this topic after the huge chat =)

Anywho mine happened in October before me and my ex started dating. We had been fooling around for awhile at the time. We went on a hayride with my fraternity (you take a bus and 2 kegs and a shit ton of liquor to a farm, get on a hayride to a clearing in the woods and get really drunk around a campfire while people cook you food) and when we got back we went at it on my couch. Being on the verge of blacking out I lasted a good while and she said it was good. So i was satisfied with that. About 30min after she was lying naked on my couch puking into a trashcan tho and i was drinking another beer lol. I was 20 at the time and she was 18.

[brigita]

Mediocre. It didn't happen in a car so that's something. And I thought I had what was a good relationship with the guy; I really, really liked him. Then he dumped me about 10 months later which broke my little jailbait heart. Oh well, his loss!

[Stuie]

With my wife at 24. Pretty Damn Good!

That's all you little pervs get.

[JOE]

I was 15 with a 16 year old (girl). used a condom i got for free at warped tour. did it in her sisters bed in the middle of the day. Yah as far as time... we know how that goes.

[acolorado]

For me it was when i was 15. My girlfriend was 18.

We lived in a small town so we drove out to a lake nearby at night. The event itself was probably the same as for everyone - we were in the backseat of her car so not terribly romantic.

The real excitement came when we were relaxing in the back afterwards. A truck pulled in behind us and put it's highbeams on. This was quite a surprise as you might imagine, so we were scrambling to get our clothes back on. In the tumble she put my jeans on - and i wound up with hers.

She hopped in front and started the car, tried to drive off and ... nothing. We had driven up onto a rock and were stuck.

So dressed in a pair of ladies pink jeans that came up almost to my knee - they must have looked like capri pants - I had to get out and while waving to the truck behind us as casually as possible, push the car off the rock.

I never knew for sure WHO was in the truck back there - but ever after the town Sheriff at the time had a big grin for me whenever we met.

[natgnat]

Interesting topic...

I was 17, in my second week of college, inebriated, and I met the guy about 5 minutes beforehand.

Whoops.

It was mostly stupid. Best adjective I can think of here. .

[Jeff_T]

First time was when I was 17, the lady friend was 18. Happened the night of Winter Formal, cliche. It wasn't bad, it was on a waterbed. Used a trojan ultra thin, or whatever it's called. Long story short it broke off at the base, which led to a lot of fun (not really) and some awkwardness. Caught it just in time and had to wash the sheets... Chalked it up to being a good learning experience

[Tyler]

Wouldn't know, no ring on this finger yet

[starlequin]

I was 19 and I lost it in a cheap motel. We were both in the service. I was in love. He was cheating on his fiancee, whom I was unaware of. It was pretty much a let down after all the build up to the actual event. I was disappointed and just kinda thought, "That's it?"

[A13lackFish]

Was 15 with my 2nd girlfriend, did the deed at a house i had been house sitting (basically walk the dog) on the couch downstairs. Fun enough other then the sticky leather feeling..

[Tati]

I was 18, freshman at college. I had been seeing this guy for a few weeks, and on one very drunk night, we snuck to the girl's bathroom. It was a co-ed dorm, and I had a roommate, the bathroom was all the way down the hall and we got a few funny looks walking down to the bathroom wearing just towels. We started fooling around and one thing led to another...I dont know if it was his first or not, but it sure was fun!

[mushrat]

quick.

[SuburbanSmoker]

i was 16, with a girl for about 4 months at that point was super akward, round two was much better about an hour later. o the joys of highschool

[ryno]

[quote name='SuburbanSmoker' date='18 March 2010 - 07:44 PM' timestamp='1268955849' post='458035']
i was 16, with a girl for about 4 months at that point was super akward, round two was much better about an hour later. o the joys of highschool
[/quote]

Round 2 is always better!

[joytron]

eh it was alright i was nineteen, a bit on the older side, kinda tired from work that day, the girlfriend at the time decided tonight was the night. The best part was that night I learned i prefer to cuddle.

[dagman]

We were both 16 it was and with my ex girlfriend. I was back in town for Christmas the first time for both of us. we did it in my best friends younger sisters bed, no protection. Also she was dating my best friend at the time.

[Charley]

for some reason I could not finish so after about 45 minutes she kicked me out of bed.

altho I blame her. she didnt move at all didnt make any sound at all just laid there looking bored. I think i even caught her changing the tv channel but she denied it.


yea my first time was such a confidence booster wasnt it? (that was sarcasm by the way)

[PSU Smoker]

[quote name='Charley' date='18 March 2010 - 11:06 PM' timestamp='1268967999' post='458087']
for some reason I could not finish so after about 45 minutes she kicked me out of bed.

altho I blame her. she didnt move at all didnt make any sound at all just laid there looking bored. I think i even caught her changing the tv channel but she denied it.


yea my first time was such a confidence booster wasnt it? (that was sarcasm by the way)
[/quote]

ouch...at least you went 45min...how many people can say that?

[dagman]

[quote name='PSU Smoker' date='18 March 2010 - 08:12 PM' timestamp='1268968351' post='458093']
[quote name='Charley' date='18 March 2010 - 11:06 PM' timestamp='1268967999' post='458087']
for some reason I could not finish so after about 45 minutes she kicked me out of bed.

altho I blame her. she didnt move at all didnt make any sound at all just laid there looking bored. I think i even caught her changing the tv channel but she denied it.


yea my first time was such a confidence booster wasnt it? (that was sarcasm by the way)
[/quote]

ouch...at least you went 45min...how many people can say that?
[/quote]

I can. have only been able to finish from intercourse three times out of hundreds of sexual encounters with multiple girlfriends. it is a curse.

[Charley]

[quote name='dagman' date='18 March 2010 - 10:33 PM' timestamp='1268969595' post='458100']
[quote name='PSU Smoker' date='18 March 2010 - 08:12 PM' timestamp='1268968351' post='458093']
[quote name='Charley' date='18 March 2010 - 11:06 PM' timestamp='1268967999' post='458087']
for some reason I could not finish so after about 45 minutes she kicked me out of bed.

altho I blame her. she didnt move at all didnt make any sound at all just laid there looking bored. I think i even caught her changing the tv channel but she denied it.


yea my first time was such a confidence booster wasnt it? (that was sarcasm by the way)
[/quote]

ouch...at least you went 45min...how many people can say that?
[/quote]

I can. have only been able to finish from intercourse three times out of hundreds of sexual encounters with multiple girlfriends. it is a curse.
[/quote]

hah I almost thought I was the only one.
most guys say they would kill to last that long but i would kill to be a damn minute man. at least they get to finish most of the time.(unless it has happened to you you have no idea how bad it feels to be kicked out of bed.)

most guys think the longer you last the better job your doing but in reality the woman just gets bored and sore then you have to stop without getting yours.

[ryno]

[quote name='PSU Smoker' date='18 March 2010 - 11:12 PM' timestamp='1268968351' post='458093']
[quote name='Charley' date='18 March 2010 - 11:06 PM' timestamp='1268967999' post='458087']
for some reason I could not finish so after about 45 minutes she kicked me out of bed.

altho I blame her. she didnt move at all didnt make any sound at all just laid there looking bored. I think i even caught her changing the tv channel but she denied it.


yea my first time was such a confidence booster wasnt it? (that was sarcasm by the way)
[/quote]

ouch...at least you went 45min...how many people can say that?
[/quote]

for the first time yea.. dont think many guys can say that

[PSU Smoker]

[quote name='Charley' date='18 March 2010 - 11:42 PM' timestamp='1268970145' post='458103']
[quote name='dagman' date='18 March 2010 - 10:33 PM' timestamp='1268969595' post='458100']
[quote name='PSU Smoker' date='18 March 2010 - 08:12 PM' timestamp='1268968351' post='458093']
[quote name='Charley' date='18 March 2010 - 11:06 PM' timestamp='1268967999' post='458087']
for some reason I could not finish so after about 45 minutes she kicked me out of bed.

altho I blame her. she didnt move at all didnt make any sound at all just laid there looking bored. I think i even caught her changing the tv channel but she denied it.


yea my first time was such a confidence booster wasnt it? (that was sarcasm by the way)
[/quote]

ouch...at least you went 45min...how many people can say that?
[/quote]

I can. have only been able to finish from intercourse three times out of hundreds of sexual encounters with multiple girlfriends. it is a curse.
[/quote]

hah I almost thought I was the only one.
most guys say they would kill to last that long but i would kill to be a damn minute man. at least they get to finish most of the time.(unless it has happened to you you have no idea how bad it feels to be kicked out of bed.)

most guys think the longer you last the better job your doing but in reality the woman just gets bored and sore then you have to stop without getting yours.
[/quote]

I can say i get the best of both worlds...sober I can be a minute man if i want to but I go a little longer for the sake of the girl. Drunk is a different story...it usually ended up with my ex asking "are you going to finish soon or can we just stop?"

[colto]

[quote name='Charley' date='18 March 2010 - 10:42 PM' timestamp='1268970145' post='458103']
[quote name='dagman' date='18 March 2010 - 10:33 PM' timestamp='1268969595' post='458100']
[quote name='PSU Smoker' date='18 March 2010 - 08:12 PM' timestamp='1268968351' post='458093']
[quote name='Charley' date='18 March 2010 - 11:06 PM' timestamp='1268967999' post='458087']
for some reason I could not finish so after about 45 minutes she kicked me out of bed.

altho I blame her. she didnt move at all didnt make any sound at all just laid there looking bored. I think i even caught her changing the tv channel but she denied it.


yea my first time was such a confidence booster wasnt it? (that was sarcasm by the way)
[/quote]

ouch...at least you went 45min...how many people can say that?
[/quote]

I can. have only been able to finish from intercourse three times out of hundreds of sexual encounters with multiple girlfriends. it is a curse.
[/quote]

hah I almost thought I was the only one.
most guys say they would kill to last that long but i would kill to be a damn minute man. at least they get to finish most of the time.(unless it has happened to you you have no idea how bad it feels to be kicked out of bed.)

most guys think the longer you last the better job your doing but in reality the woman just gets bored and sore then you have to stop without getting yours.
[/quote]

That's fairly common. I'm the same way. It's definitely not a curse though. It is caused by desensitization of the penis (usually due to masturbating too roughly or too tightly). If she is getting bored then you are definitely doing it wrong. Due to your desensitization you can rail her much harder than other guys for a sustained amount of time. I can go for about 45 minutes at 4-5 full thrusts per second and have gotten very good marks from the ladies I have been with (although I am a good deal larger than average size, despite only weighing 135). Just remember to go hard and change the angle/position every few minutes to hit a fresh area. If you don't know where the g-spot is then you better learn it asap. Incorporate the clit and erogenous zones as well (you would be amazed at how horny you can get a girl with nothing but small warm breaths on her neck and ears and lightly tracing lines over her body with the tip of your fingernail). If you aren't athletic enough to keep pace then the issue can be corrected by forgoing any sort of masturbation or sexual activity for 60-75 days. This will allow your nerve endings to heal. It will not however make women any less bored when they are in bed with you. That is something you must work on.

[delSol_si]

[quote name='Tati' date='18 March 2010 - 06:30 PM' timestamp='1268955026' post='458031']
I was 18, freshman at college. I had been seeing this guy for a few weeks, and on one very drunk night, we snuck to the girl's bathroom. It was a co-ed dorm, and I had a roommate, the bathroom was all the way down the hall and we got a few funny looks walking down to the bathroom wearing just towels. We started fooling around and one thing led to another...I dont know if it was his first or not, but it sure was fun!
[/quote]

holy shit, haven't seen you on in awhile!



as for mine, haven't had it. im one of those fools that is waiting