r1v3th3ad Posted March 17, 2011 Share Posted March 17, 2011 if all else fails and you cant win it in court...go over at about 330-4am when everyone is asleep and crap in her mailbox(federal area of enforcement though, tampering with mail, but it hasn't stopped me before) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IainUM Posted March 17, 2011 Share Posted March 17, 2011 [quote name='INCUBUSRATM' timestamp='1300314639' post='501762'] Oh, I forgot this, Jay... [quote name='Arcane' timestamp='1300256142' post='501661'] they do be crazy. [/quote] Damn women! Now where's Iain to say his part... [/quote] BITCHES BE CRAZY 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chreees Posted March 17, 2011 Share Posted March 17, 2011 [quote name='IainUM' timestamp='1300347045' post='501822'] [quote name='INCUBUSRATM' timestamp='1300314639' post='501762'] Oh, I forgot this, Jay... [quote name='Arcane' timestamp='1300256142' post='501661'] they do be crazy. [/quote] Damn women! Now where's Iain to say his part... [/quote] BITCHES BE CRAZY [/quote] There we go! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IainUM Posted March 17, 2011 Share Posted March 17, 2011 you're welcome, chris Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chreees Posted March 17, 2011 Share Posted March 17, 2011 [quote name='IainUM' timestamp='1300347985' post='501827'] you're welcome, chris [/quote] I don't know why, but for some reason it amuses me we all have our little part with that... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IainUM Posted March 17, 2011 Share Posted March 17, 2011 well you know i do what i do, when i do what i do Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Allstar Posted March 17, 2011 Share Posted March 17, 2011 Well everyone is right. She didn't admit she owes you money. Regardless if you continue to contact her or not, you are guilty of harrassment. So you are screwed there. Honestly at this point, I would cut my loss and forget about the money. Oh ya when it comes to word against word, the woman will win the majority of the time. Sorry to say it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vendetta_revived Posted March 17, 2011 Share Posted March 17, 2011 [quote name='r1v3th3ad' timestamp='1300332136' post='501807'] if all else fails and you cant win it in court...go over at about 330-4am when everyone is asleep and crap in her mailbox(federal area of enforcement though, tampering with mail, but it hasn't stopped me before) [/quote] Lol!! That does sound like some revenge! But her dad is an asshole cop he says. But whatever you do, best of luck man. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chreees Posted March 17, 2011 Share Posted March 17, 2011 But she did atleast ACKNOWLEDGE the $300, so I would say he has a chance... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rhineholt Posted March 17, 2011 Author Share Posted March 17, 2011 [quote name='Allstar' timestamp='1300351121' post='501842'] Well everyone is right. She didn't admit she owes you money. Regardless if you continue to contact her or not, you are guilty of harrassment. So you are screwed there. Honestly at this point, I would cut my loss and forget about the money. Oh ya when it comes to word against word, the woman will win the majority of the time. Sorry to say it. [/quote] I'm honestly not guilty of harassment. Not once have I said anything mean to her, nor have i pestered her about it. She never told me to say stop, and I only asked her once through email. In fact, I didn't even ask her. I said i wanted tot alk about the money she owed me. I never said anythign about the amount. EVER. At least not recently. But the point is, she said that it was 300 dollars. Not me. [quote name='INCUBUSRATM' timestamp='1300368047' post='501854'] But she did atleast ACKNOWLEDGE the $300, so I would say he has a chance... [/quote] I agree. I'm really hoping I do have a chance. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rhineholt Posted March 17, 2011 Author Share Posted March 17, 2011 [quote name='Arcane' timestamp='1300323940' post='501797'] $50 to get $300? sounds good to me! [/quote] Exactly what I said jay! [quote name='joytron' timestamp='1300326032' post='501803'] [quote name='rhineholt' timestamp='1300321164' post='501788'] So my phone has been off all morning. I jsut turned it on. Not only did she text me that warning again, but she said this. "So greg, if youre so hung up on 300 dollars, where are you going to come up with the 1000 to file for the court cost? and also, my father said if you continue to try and contact me he will file charges against you for harassment." She basically admitted she owes me that money... am i right? or am i just being too hopeful? Also, i already talked to my dad. I could most likely go to small claims court for about 50 dollars and I could even sue her for the court costs. I might not get it, but i can hope. [/quote] In no way does it imply that she owes you any anything, it just means that you have been bothering her about money. I dont get how you have any proof, you paid in cash and have nothing in writing. If she denies it, its just your word against hers. [/quote] I may not have proof since I paid in cash, but if I find my phone that has the text messages on it saying she did owe me money, then i have proof. I'll have to talk to my neighbors who are lawyers about this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Arcane Posted March 17, 2011 Share Posted March 17, 2011 there ya go! ask the lawyers! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mushrat Posted March 17, 2011 Share Posted March 17, 2011 Why are you fucking with her after she told you not to. You are breaking the law by continuing to harrass her. get a lawyer and do it the legal way, instead of the stalker way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HookahLover25 Posted March 17, 2011 Share Posted March 17, 2011 If you can't find the textes between you and her. Why don't you ask your wireless provider if they can print it? Dunno if that's possible but it doesn't hurt to try. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rhineholt Posted March 17, 2011 Author Share Posted March 17, 2011 [quote name='mushrat' timestamp='1300387406' post='501893'] Why are you fucking with her after she told you not to. You are breaking the law by continuing to harrass her. get a lawyer and do it the legal way, instead of the stalker way. [/quote] I'm not fucking with her anymore. I only said one thing to her. She blew up and sent me a bunch of messages then told me not to contact her or ill get in trouble for harassment. I haven't talked to her or messaged her or anything dealing with interaction with her since she said that. So don't think that even after she told me that i went back and tried to talk to her. I didn't. I'm talking to a lawyer this weekend. [quote name='HookahLover25' timestamp='1300389486' post='501895'] If you can't find the textes between you and her. Why don't you ask your wireless provider if they can print it? Dunno if that's possible but it doesn't hurt to try. [/quote] I already asked that. They said they only keep the texts saved for 5 days. The only thing that they keep record of is who it was sent to and what date and time. Not the actual text. Unless she just couldnt tell me because she said I would have to actually have a lawyer contact them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Big_Dee Posted March 18, 2011 Share Posted March 18, 2011 So I know from personal experince watching my two parents fight about these things that there are ways around it. Usually a decent phone as a recorder.. so you can record the conversation.. or put the call, not text, on speakerphone with a recorder next to it.. the procedure needs to go like this though for it to be valid: (WOMAN PICKS UP) W:Hello? What are you doing calling me? M:Is this __________ W:Yeah, what do you want? (CONTINUE WITH CONVERSATION) I know this because my parents had the hardest time talking to eachother during the divorce.. It sucks but if you want this to maybe work out for your favor its going to be brutal. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Arcane Posted March 18, 2011 Share Posted March 18, 2011 Don't do this. If she's already threatened with a harassment suit, the last thing you want to do is try and contact her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IainUM Posted March 18, 2011 Share Posted March 18, 2011 also, recording her without her consent is a felony.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mushrat Posted March 18, 2011 Share Posted March 18, 2011 Not in NC. you can record a conversation as long as ONE person is aware. So i can record you because I know it's being recorded. Its recording a conversation where neither person knows that's illegal. Don't know what your state laws are though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IainUM Posted March 18, 2011 Share Posted March 18, 2011 hmmm, learn something new every day, i suppose, mush Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chreees Posted March 18, 2011 Share Posted March 18, 2011 [quote name='mushrat' timestamp='1300446943' post='501998'] Not in NC. you can record a conversation as long as ONE person is aware. So i can record you because I know it's being recorded. Its recording a conversation where neither person knows that's illegal. Don't know what your state laws are though. [/quote] Yep, same here in TN, or so I've been told. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rhineholt Posted March 19, 2011 Author Share Posted March 19, 2011 [quote name='Arcane' timestamp='1300430466' post='501971'] Don't do this. If she's already threatened with a harassment suit, the last thing you want to do is try and contact her. [/quote] Yeah, i don't plan on it. Right now, the only thing that I can do is look for my old phone with texts of her admitting she owes me money. Otherwise, I'm screwed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dr. B Posted March 20, 2011 Share Posted March 20, 2011 lol cut your losses and be more skeptical in the future. Are you starving or being threatened with eviction? If not, learn your lesson and move on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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