Is Being Drunk....

[Coyote]

Here's the thing... if she says "I'm sorry I was an asshole last night when I was drunk" that means that she has to admit that she is an asshole when she is drunk. That means that if she doesn't want to be an asshole that she needs to stop drinking. Which isn't going to happen because she doesn't want to stop drinking. Denial.

If she under the influence of any mood or mind altering substance that creates negative/harmful effects often then she has addictive tendancies. Either way, it doesn't matter what you think about her. She is only thinking of herself because she can't see out of her way of thinking.

My advice is stop trying to protect her and clean up after her. Let her make her bed and lie in it. She might wake up in the morning face down in the dirt with a broken swing on top of her (yeah that sucks) but thats the way she is going to realize she is fucking up. She will either wise up or she won't.

If you don't want her in your life you don't have to have her.

[mushrat]

[quote name='rhineholt' timestamp='1313973761' post='520761']
a good reason to act like an asshole?

Let me explain. My friend got really drunk and got into a fight with my friend, not a fist fight or anything, just a very heated argument. We were at my summer home in Indiana and the really drunk girl decided to go swing on the 25 year old swing. I walked over to her and i kindly asked her to get off the swing and come back upstairs where there's light. (it was 3 in the morning)

She said no and kept being difficult, but finally i convinced her to get off the swing. As she was walking back up the stairs, she called me an asshole and a jerk and a few other names, just because i was looking out for her safety. I explained that to her too.

NOW, I wasn't upset that she was a jerk to me when she was drunk; I was upset she didn't apologize to me the next morning for being so disrespectful.

I was talking to my friend about it thats close friends with her and I asked if she thought she was being rude. She said no, because she was drunk, i should expect that.
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Nope, not an excuse. I suggest getting a new friend.