xpimpitox Posted March 19, 2007 Share Posted March 19, 2007 +1 on everybodies advice. I havent been burned that bad because well I aint much of a looker or have luck with the ladies...im always stuck in the friend zone, that doesnt bug me anymore, im not looking or letting any girl come into my life. girlfriends/wives can be dream crushers and im pursueing a career so i have no time for that. to qoute the professor himself, tom leykis...DTB DUMP THAT BITCH!!!seriously though its tough to do so (i still have feelings for a certain someone but no longer talk 2 her and even if she wanted 2 be with me id say no) but move on. have meaningless sex like lakemonster adviced you to do so..hehe theres no harm in that now is there? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Allia22 Posted March 19, 2007 Share Posted March 19, 2007 Just wrap it before you tap it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kornkitten42 Posted March 20, 2007 Share Posted March 20, 2007 I agree. I had a boyfriend who was the exact way your friend is. I finally just booted his ass to the curb the same way you need to.It will be hard but you know what? You'll keep kicking yourself if you stick with her (hell i kick myself for mine and i only stayed with him for an extra year...)... because you'll always think about the other fish you could have had but instead you just stuck with this selfish one?And btw , if she was honestly going to change, she would have CANCELED her account to show she's commited to you.....not give you some bs excuse about paying for it. That means she doesn't care about you. Just the attention you give to her, weither it be positive or negative. LEAVE HER, IGNORE HER, GET A NEW JOB. TELL HER TO BUZZ OFF AND GO SUCK AN EGG! THAT TYPE OF GIRL PREYS ON NICE GUYS LIKE YOU! evil * GRRR* After you leave her, she'll just do the same stuff to the next poor innocent dumb schmuck that comes up, while you'll be living the good life with your animals, your friends and your new hot lady friend sell the parrot, get rid of all the stupid stuff that reminds you of her and move on! (weither you burn it trash it or give it back, but the last one is not to be done in person, just leave it and go!!!!!..) (i decided i would be a "nice" ex girlfriend and gave everything he ever gave me back to him, letters,cards, stuffed animals, gifts etc on his door step with all the sole pictures of him that he had given me over the two years we were together, poof how's that for a big kick in the nuts? You got dumped and here's all your crap back..nice way to add insult to injury and get the point across that you want nothing to do with them anymore) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sambookamax Posted March 20, 2007 Share Posted March 20, 2007 BIG +1! to what kornkitten said....When I finally decided to get outta my bad relationship, I talked to my ex-gf about moving out and trying that for a few months, I tried to let my ex-gf think I was gonna date her, so I could get her outta my apartment in a calm manner. As soon as she was out, I changed the locks, and left all the things that had anything to do with her an I, out on the front porch!!!!!!! (I knew that she was coming by to get something she left behind)...After a few weeks, I was so much happier, I wish I did it a long time prior!!! So seriously take the advise above, there will be other girls...other friends...etc...! Trust Us!I have an awesome girlfriend, great new friends and a beautiful house....I couldn't be happier! I am kicking myself for wasting time with my crazy ex-gf!You WILL be kicking yourself down the road, at least that is what I think...along with most of the other people on this thread...Cheers! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MrBubbler Posted March 20, 2007 Share Posted March 20, 2007 if your having this problem now take it as a blessing and part ways, people dont change so dont assume she is going to change. As everyone else said your lucky your getting out now before you got even more attached. As cheesy as it sounds there are millions of other women in the world why waste your time with one that makes you feel happy yet also so sad, you need to find yourself a woman that will always bring a smile to your face and always be their for you and your animals.BTW if some one left my dog out in the freezing weather i think i would have got a clear idea that A. she doesnt give a shit about anything else besides her life. B. is a fucking cruel heartless bitch. if she is mad at you so be it , dont take it out on the dog!sorry for the harsh words but this angers me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dragonsmettle Posted March 20, 2007 Share Posted March 20, 2007 Dude id say dump her, im not one for the drama of relationships, they mess with people too muchmy last girlfriend broke up with me twice on 2 consecutive days (which confused me cause i moved on after the first and wasnt aware we were together again) then when she calls me up to the third day and wants to go out but i just didnt want to deal with her anymore. (maybe im an ass for being that way but oh well) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hamilton Posted March 20, 2007 Share Posted March 20, 2007 ah, Im glad this forum is filled with so many intelligent people who have the right idea. It makes me feel like there might be just a little bit of hope in the world. They're all right, as unfortunate as it is she isnt going to change for you, nor anyone else. and if she does? screw her anyway, you already have a dog, you dont need something else following you around like a puppy. From the sounds of it you take care of your life and do what needs to be done. Just look at this as going to the doctor and getting a wart removed from your hand. Its just another appointment to do what needs to be done. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sambookamax Posted March 20, 2007 Share Posted March 20, 2007 (edited) Sadly though, I don't think he is going to take any of this advise ... (not yet anyhow, it may take some more heartache first)We've all been there, it is a hard lesson to learn, but one we must learn ...... My favorite saying, "Life's all about lessons, and only we can choose to learn from those lessons..." Edited March 20, 2007 by sambookamax Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Allia22 Posted March 20, 2007 Share Posted March 20, 2007 Have some faith in the guy... he's made an important first step. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LilTank13 Posted March 21, 2007 Share Posted March 21, 2007 Big ups for starting to be cold. That is what you need to be- COLD. The more you let her know you are going to let her control you, the more she is going to do it...Take a step back and look at your situation. You are seriously struggling with the idea of carrying on a relationship with a girl who chooses VIDEO GAMES over YOU. I don't know about your self esteem bro, but it should be a lot higher than what it is. Lake and many others have been correct in thier whole dodging bullets, having friends here, and going out and meeting people. Get away from her. Sell the fucking bird. Better yet, eat it. It will put some hair on your chest. Get a new job. Just get the hell away from her. She knows how to get to you, and she keeps doing it. I find it pretty abusive actually. Stand up, show some balls, and put her in her place, like you know you need to do. You obviously put more into it than she did, which is why it hurts. Learn from it, and MOVE ON. I think you did well in taking the cab, and telling her it's done. Now follow through. Unless you are making stupid ass money, quit your job. Take the 80 dollar kick in the ass, and move on. Keep your dog away from her. If she'd treat your dog like that, imagine how much more she has in store for you... Just be strong bro... You've got what, almost 3000 friends here? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pavlakos Posted March 21, 2007 Share Posted March 21, 2007 yeah...what they said... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sicklecow Posted March 22, 2007 Share Posted March 22, 2007 QUOTE (LilTank13 @ Mar 20 2007, 08:36 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>Sell the fucking bird. Better yet, eat it. It will put some hair on your chest.Haha, yes! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hookahmike Posted March 23, 2007 Share Posted March 23, 2007 (edited) She will not change FOR YOU She will only change for HERSELF.Go find someone whose interest are more in line w/ yours Alia's got the right Idea.As for Alia (since anyone can see her pic) she just suffers from 'Pretty Girl w/ a brain talking to a guy' syndrome. Anyone that isn't already attached would be stupid to not hope We seem to have several women that fit the above here@ the forum, I consider that a GOOD thing since we get a lot more balance (which may be food for another thread comparing here to some computer forums I frequent, just gotta get time since it is one of the special things about this forum ) /me goes to hug & kiss wife for being one of the above (& this is year 22 since we met )If I can find the 'right someone' (& no it wasn't on the 1st or 5th try) you can too ! You cut out cigarettes, you control your gaming - YOU CAN GET OUT OF THIS SITUATION!/edit just read some more and forgot the part about this being a LEARNING experience (you HAVE heard learning is painful?) & also consider this a 'growing pain' and get some personal motivation (to dump her and move on). Edited March 23, 2007 by hookahmike Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LilTank13 Posted March 23, 2007 Share Posted March 23, 2007 QUOTE QUOTE(LilTank13 @ Mar 20 2007, 08:36 PM) Sell the fucking bird. Better yet, eat it. It will put some hair on your chest.Haha, yes!I thought someone would like that Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hookah Joe Posted March 29, 2007 Share Posted March 29, 2007 QUOTE (LilTank13 @ Mar 23 2007, 09:52 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>QUOTE QUOTE(LilTank13 @ Mar 20 2007, 08:36 PM) Sell the fucking bird. Better yet, eat it. It will put some hair on your chest.Haha, yes!I thought someone would like thatHaha, maybe some feathers on your chest? But in all seriousness, the other people have given great advice. You just gotta talk to her less and less, until you don't anymore. And if it is a 2,000$ bird, I would sell it. I have a $300 quaker parrot. But, it seems this bird is a burden. It reminds you of her, and is alot of work. Im guessing its some kind of african parrot or something. If you sell the bird, and even get like $500-800 on it, thats not bad. I would buy your momma suttin nice. Take the dog to petsmart. And get yourself some spiffy new hookah gear! People may seem nerdy and "pathetic" going to an online forum to talk out their problems. but, you shouldn't feel that way. The people here are quite intelligent, and can help with everything. I hope it works out well for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scheetz Posted March 29, 2007 Share Posted March 29, 2007 QUOTE (sicklecow @ Mar 22 2007, 12:43 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>QUOTE (LilTank13 @ Mar 20 2007, 08:36 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>Sell the fucking bird. Better yet, eat it. It will put some hair on your chest.Haha, yes!Sell the bird. Find a dead bird and paint said bird the same color as the one you bought. Then cut its head off and ducktape it back on. Send said bird in mail to her. such a good movie.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Johnny_D Posted March 30, 2007 Share Posted March 30, 2007 QUOTE (Scheetz @ Mar 29 2007, 10:43 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>QUOTE (sicklecow @ Mar 22 2007, 12:43 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>QUOTE (LilTank13 @ Mar 20 2007, 08:36 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>Sell the fucking bird. Better yet, eat it. It will put some hair on your chest.Haha, yes!Sell the bird. Find a dead bird and paint said bird the same color as the one you bought. Then cut its head off and ducktape it back on. Send said bird in mail to her. such a good movie....Twisted... but i like it Now refer to the 'dead parrot' scene in monty python and your home free JD Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gaara Posted March 30, 2007 Share Posted March 30, 2007 (edited) She plays FF11? Everyone knows thats the worst FF ever. That's enough of a reason to dump her. Edited March 30, 2007 by Gaara Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Allia22 Posted March 31, 2007 Share Posted March 31, 2007 OMG, is he dead? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ASUSEAN1 Posted March 31, 2007 Share Posted March 31, 2007 (edited) QUOTE (Allia22 @ Mar 30 2007, 11:28 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>OMG, is he dead? yea havnt seen a post in awhile?maybe the crazy GF cut the internet lines to the house Edited March 31, 2007 by ASUSEAN1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hookahmike Posted April 2, 2007 Share Posted April 2, 2007 So? What's happening? (Keeping the thread bumped & pumped).Part of your therapy is to keep us posted as to what is happening so we can support ya! Think of us as the long distance support group (hey you dragged us in, now yer stuck w/ us )QUOTE (Allia22 @ Mar 30 2007, 07:28 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>OMG, is he dead? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jerjer72 Posted April 8, 2007 Author Share Posted April 8, 2007 Sorry guys and gals my comp was down for a long time. I have to go to work though so I will post a reply when I get back im in a hurry at the momment but I am back now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kym Posted April 8, 2007 Share Posted April 8, 2007 Really all these posts you've got friends, you're not a loser and never feel bad about asking for advise. A real lady should never treat her man like that, you made me cry. Move on.......if you smile it helps too..chin up, kick some ass, and never let anyone rain on you're parade as they would say! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jerjer72 Posted April 10, 2007 Author Share Posted April 10, 2007 I am requesting that this topic may be closed now. Thanks for all of your help and support guys! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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